{"id":1567,"date":"2014-03-16T07:54:00","date_gmt":"2014-03-16T11:54:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.silvercentury.org\/2017\/09\/recalculating-my-expiration-date\/"},"modified":"2018-04-10T11:20:31","modified_gmt":"2018-04-10T15:20:31","slug":"recalculating-my-expiration-date","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/78.142.243.82\/~silvercentury\/2014\/03\/recalculating-my-expiration-date\/","title":{"rendered":"Recalculating My Expiration Date"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>At 79, I\u2019m old enough to understand that I\u2019m not immortal. Put it this way: I don\u2019t take out five-year magazine subscriptions, but I\u2019m still willing to buy green bananas.<\/p>\n<p>I might have to rethink my position on magazine subscriptions.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Like many people, I\u2019ve always had an almost superstitious belief that I\u2019ll live only about as long as my parents did. My mother died at 50, and I breathed a sigh of relief when I turned 51. After Mom died, my father became my role model for longevity. He survived to 84, and without thinking much about it, I\u2019ve assumed I\u2019ll probably last until my mid-80s.<\/p>\n<p>But women outlive men, and Americans today have longer life expectancies than our parents and grandparents did. Recently, I took a two-question test at the <span class=\"s1\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.ssa.gov\/OACT\/population\/longevity.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Social Security website<\/a>. After asking me to enter my gender and birth date, it informed me that, based on averages, I should be around until I\u2019m about 89, a good five years beyond what I\u2019d assumed was my expiration date.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p>How long you expect to go on breathing can shape important choices you make about your later life. For instance, a<span class=\"s1\"> <a href=\"http:\/\/crr.bc.edu\/working-papers\/how-do-subjective-longevity-expectations-influence-retirement-plans\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">recent study<\/a> by the Center for Retirement Research at Boston College found that many people decide when to retire based on their assumptions about how long they\u2019ll live\u2014and they often underestimate the years remaining. Those who expect to last longer tend to retire later. &nbsp; &nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p>It seems to me that we base plenty of other decisions on how many years we believe lie ahead. My friend, Jeanne<span class=\"s2\">, has a number of relatives who reached 100 and beyond, so I asked her whether that has affected her approach to her later years. Though heredity isn\u2019t the whole story when it comes to longevity, it\u2019s a good predictor, and I know Jeanne expects to be a very old woman someday. She works out regularly, she told me, because if she doesn\u2019t keep moving now, she won\u2019t be <i>able<\/i> to move in a decade or so. Last fall, she was interviewed for a position on a board of directors. The interviewer, knowing she was 81, inquired about her health and asked\u2014much more tactfully than this\u2014whether she thought she\u2019d make it to the end of her four-year term. She replied that if she lived as long as her Aunt Esther did, she\u2019d be around for the next quarter century.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m still mulling over how my more modest lifespan expectations have affected me, but I\u2019ve realized that I rarely exercise partly because, if my time is short, I can think of more enjoyable ways to spend it than working out. Another thing: when my beloved dog died recently, I decided against adopting another one because it would probably outlive me, and who would take care of it after I was gone? Also, I know the time is coming when I won\u2019t be able to walk a dog three times a day in rain, snow, sleet and dead of night.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Like Jeanne, I\u2019m in the workforce, but that\u2019s not related to my assumptions about my lifespan. I love what I do. I hope to breathe my last in the middle of a page, fingers on the keyboard with sentences still unwritten.<\/p>\n<p>It may be that I\u2019ll stick around for longer than I had expected to, but I still think my dog decision is realistic. On the other hand, I might change my mind about exercise and magazine subscriptions.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>At 79, I\u2019m old enough to understand that I\u2019m not immortal. Put it this way: I don\u2019t take out five-year magazine subscriptions, but I\u2019m still willing to buy green bananas. I might have to rethink my position on magazine subscriptions.&nbsp;<span class=\"ellipsis\">&hellip;<\/span><\/p>\n<div class=\"read-more\"><a href=\"http:\/\/78.142.243.82\/~silvercentury\/2014\/03\/recalculating-my-expiration-date\/\">Read more <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">Recalculating My Expiration Date<\/span><span class=\"meta-nav\"> &#8250;<\/span><\/a><\/div>\n<p><!-- end of .read-more --><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":4,"featured_media":1805,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"ngg_post_thumbnail":0,"_FSMCFIC_featured_image_caption":"","_FSMCFIC_featured_image_nocaption":"","_FSMCFIC_featured_image_hide":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[79],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1567","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-blog"],"cc_featured_image_caption":{"caption_text":false,"source_text":false,"source_url":false},"wps_subtitle":"","_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/78.142.243.82\/~silvercentury\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1567","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/78.142.243.82\/~silvercentury\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/78.142.243.82\/~silvercentury\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/78.142.243.82\/~silvercentury\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/4"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/78.142.243.82\/~silvercentury\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1567"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"http:\/\/78.142.243.82\/~silvercentury\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1567\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":4131,"href":"http:\/\/78.142.243.82\/~silvercentury\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1567\/revisions\/4131"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/78.142.243.82\/~silvercentury\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/1805"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/78.142.243.82\/~silvercentury\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1567"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/78.142.243.82\/~silvercentury\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1567"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/78.142.243.82\/~silvercentury\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1567"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}