{"id":1671,"date":"2016-10-22T08:01:00","date_gmt":"2016-10-22T12:01:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.silvercentury.org\/2017\/09\/new-names-for-todays-households\/"},"modified":"2018-03-31T09:02:07","modified_gmt":"2018-03-31T13:02:07","slug":"new-names-for-todays-households","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/78.142.243.82\/~silvercentury\/2016\/10\/new-names-for-todays-households\/","title":{"rendered":"New Names for Today&#8217;s Households"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>As I wrote in a previous blog about <a href=\"http:\/\/www.silvercentury.org\/polBlogs.cfm?doctype_code=Blog&amp;doc_id=542&amp;Keyword_Desc=#.WAqEjugrKhc\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">older kids returning to live with their parents<\/a>, it really wasn&#8217;t that long ago that it was OK, respectable even, for a young adult to live at home until marriage. Then it became almost unheard of in my generation. And now, everything old being new again, 85 percent of college grads return home before flying solo, according to <em>Time<\/em> magazine. Sociologist Katherine Newman, author of <em>The Accordion&nbsp;Family: Boomerang Kids, <\/em><em>Anxious Parents, and the Private Toll of Global Competition<\/em> (2012), says it&#8217;s a global issue.<\/p>\n<p>First, the trend was called \u201cboomerang kids.\u201d Next, returning kids were called an \u201caccordion family.\u201d In a PBS interview, Newman said, \u201cThe reason I use the accordion term is to capture this sense of expansion and contraction, that the family is not a stable group. It&#8217;s sort of moving in and out. But primarily, I mean multigenerational households with working or nonworking young adults and their parents.\u201d<\/p>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/uwMxOsD2Dhg\" width=\"560\" height=\"315\" frameborder=\"0\"><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p>I recently learned a term coined in Japan for kids returning home as young adults to live with parents: parasite singles. When I am out of my realm with new terminology, I turn to the Urban Dictionary website. (It&#8217;s less humiliating than asking my teenagers for help.) Urban Dictionary defines a parasite single as \u201cSomeone (with) no plans for marriage any time soon, not dating, still living with parents. Most \u2018parasingles\u2019 don&#8217;t quit this lifestyle until their late 30s, early 40s.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Why the derogatory slant? Because in Japan, parents are ashamed, blamed for failing to raise independent children. Not so everywhere\u2014in Spain, disenchanted parents hold the government accountable for the loss of livelihoods that could establish&nbsp;independence. But in Italy and some Nordic countries, they welcome their kids back, if they had ever left.<\/p>\n<p>Newman interviewed 300 accordion families and speculates that households&nbsp;in which both parents worked when kids were younger may be at a stage where they can really enjoy their kids as young adults.<\/p>\n<p>Should we be worried about the growing trend of young adults returning home, spending their parents&#8217; 401(k) and not making enough to start saving for their own futures? Or should we accept the \u201cnew normal\u201d of multigenerational living and just learn to share a bathroom?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>As I wrote in a previous blog about older kids returning to live with their parents, it really wasn&#8217;t that long ago that it was OK, respectable even, for a young adult to live at home until marriage. 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