{"id":5361,"date":"2019-02-05T11:47:16","date_gmt":"2019-02-05T16:47:16","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.silvercentury.org\/?p=5361"},"modified":"2019-02-05T11:49:55","modified_gmt":"2019-02-05T16:49:55","slug":"spiritual-support-at-the-end-of-life","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/78.142.243.82\/~silvercentury\/2019\/02\/spiritual-support-at-the-end-of-life\/","title":{"rendered":"Spiritual Support at the End of Life"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><em>T<\/em><em>his is part 2 in our series on spirituality and aging. <\/em><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> Read <a href=\"http:\/\/www.silvercentury.org\/2019\/01\/what-spirituality-means-to-older-people\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">part 1 here<\/a>.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Eric Markinson identified himself as a chaplain when he walked into the hospital room of a man he calls Tommy, who was dying of alcohol-related liver disease. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cI don\u2019t think you can help me much,\u201d Tommy said. \u201cI\u2019m an atheist.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Markinson, associate pastor of spiritual care at Grace United Methodist Church in Dallas, replied that he was there to help in any way that he could. In the conversation that followed, Tommy said he\u2019d rejected the religion of his childhood, which taught that God was judgmental and unforgiving. Now he feared the judgment of his girlfriend and children over the years of alcohol abuse that had led to his impending death. &nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Even though he was an atheist, Tommy was in spiritual distress.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cAt the end of life, people can struggle just as much with spiritual pain and guilt as they do with physical pain,\u201d Markinson said.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Increasingly, medical and hospice professionals are recognizing the reality of this spiritual suffering, and they are focusing on ways to integrate spiritual support into the care provided at the end of life.<\/span><\/p>\n<blockquote><p><b>A chronic or life-threatening illness can trigger spiritual struggles even for patients who are not religious.<\/b><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cPatients who are challenged by illness are likely to need assistance to find strength, hope, meaning, comfort and healing,\u201d said Ann M. Callahan, author of <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Spirituality and Hospice Social Work<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> (2017) and associate professor in the social work program at Eastern Kentucky University. \u201cHealth care providers may not be able to prevent spiritual suffering, but they can support spiritual well-being.&#8221;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When Congress created the Medicare Hospice Benefit in the 1980s, it included reimbursement for spiritual care. Hospitals and physicians now routinely ask patients about their religious and spiritual preferences as part of the intake process. Medical schools teach courses in spirituality as it relates to patient care. And chaplains are trained to offer spiritual care not only to those in their own traditions but also to people of a variety of religions, as well as those who are atheist, agnostic or \u201cspiritual but not religious.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cWe are trained to meet people where they are and to be a nonanxious, supportive presence,\u201d Markinson said.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">All of this emerges from a growing body of research suggesting that religious or spiritual ties can promote healing and improve patient outcomes. Studies show that many patients want their physicians to discuss their spiritual beliefs; among those at the end of life, 70 percent would want their physicians to know their beliefs, and 50 percent would like their doctors to pray with them. Studies also demonstrate that most hospitalized patients believe spiritual health is as important as physical health and that many rely on faith and prayer to cope. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Spiritual Distress<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The diagnosis of a chronic or life-threatening illness can trigger spiritual struggles for patients, whether or not they are religious. <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cOne is inevitably led to ask, \u2018What is my life all about? Am I ready to die? Is there something I am still missing in this life?\u2019\u201d said Ruben L. F. Habito, professor of world religions and spirituality at Southern Methodist University\u2019s Perkins School of Theology. \u201cWith such questions may come some kind of fear, anxiety, a sense of regret, a sense of longing. These thoughts and sentiments arise from the core of one\u2019s very being, that realm that can be called \u2018spiritual.\u2019\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Some patients experience spiritual distress or spiritual suffering\u2014an inability to connect with what gives their lives meaning\u2014and some medical professionals say this diagnosis can cause just as much suffering as physical pain. In one small study, 96 percent of patients with advanced-stage cancer said they experienced spiritual pain. &nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">With help, that pain can often be alleviated. Working as a team, medical professionals, chaplains and social workers can help address the spiritual suffering of those facing the end of life. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cPatients can transcend spiritual suffering by finding meaning and making sense out of their experience,\u201d Callahan said. \u201cThis might require the help of a spiritual care provider and the services of other professionals, volunteers, family members and friends.\u201d <\/span><\/p>\n<blockquote><p><b>In a nation that\u2019s increasingly diverse, offering spiritual help can be tricky.<\/b><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Help might come in the form of prayer, scripture, rituals (such as anointing or last rites) or spiritual counseling, or even assistance in helping a patient, when appropriate, to reconcile with an estranged friend or loved one. Markinson was able to help Tommy initiate a conversation with his loved ones, who forgave him. That provided some closure and helped assuage some of the spiritual pain compounding his physical suffering. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">But offering spiritual help can be a tricky proposition, given the increasingly diverse spiritual landscape in the United States, as well as the fact that more people are identifying as spiritual but not religious. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Over the past 30 years, training for chaplains in theology schools has evolved to prepare them to serve patients of different faiths and spiritual practices\u2014either directly, or by connecting them to resources related to their personal beliefs. Chaplain programs give students a basic understanding of all the world\u2019s major religions. Student chaplains also learn to let patients take the lead in their spiritual care. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cBefore, chaplains might have gone in as spiritual guides and talked to patients,\u201d said Jeanne Stevenson-Moessner, professor of pastoral care at Southern Methodist University\u2019s Perkins School of Theology. \u201cNow, we\u2019re learning to first listen and then converse. It\u2019s a real shift.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Instead of offering a few pat words of wisdom, which might ring hollow, chaplains are taught to first listen to the patient\u2019s words, pay attention to nonverbal clues and then tailor their care accordingly, Stevenson-Moessner said. This patient-led approach helps ensure that the chaplain\u2019s guidance is truly relevant to the patient\u2019s particular spiritual struggles, as well as appropriate for that patient\u2019s beliefs. &nbsp;&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">For example, if a patient talks about regrets or expresses a desire for forgiveness\u2014whether from God or a higher power\u2014the chaplain can offer reassuring insights. That might come in the form of a Bible passage or traditional prayer for a Christian, or a passage from Rumi or the Tao for someone who identifies as spiritual but not religious. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Spiritual Turmoil<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">While spiritual beliefs may offer comfort, they can also provoke turmoil. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Some patients with regrets may worry that God is punishing them with a life-threatening disease, for example. Others, whose spirituality emphasizes the connection of mind, body and spirit, may view a diagnosis of life-threatening illness as a sign of failure, said Laura Howe-Martin, a psychologist and assistant director of behavioral sciences at UT Southwestern Medical Center\u2019s cancer institute in Dallas (TX). <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.silvercentury.org\/2017\/03\/of-pink-bears-and-t-shirts-science-and-the-hype-of-positive-thinking\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Some patients feel enormous pressure<\/a> to maintain a positive attitude<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, based on a belief that it will affect their disease. Caring professionals call it the \u201ctyranny of the positive attitude,\u201d according to Howe-Martin. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cWe know that the mind and body are incredibly related,\u201d she said. \u201cBut some interpret the research to mean, \u2018If you think this way, it increases your risk of cancer\u2019 or \u2018If you have a good attitude, you\u2019ll live longer.\u2019 We just don\u2019t have any data to back that up.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A key part of the chaplain\u2019s role is to alleviate any unhealthy emotions, whether they originate in rigid religious beliefs or open-ended New Age spirituality, said Michael Washington, palliative care chaplain at Baylor Scott &amp; White Medical Center in Dallas. &nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Resolving spiritual distress can help patients make better end-of-life decisions, such as when to discontinue treatment if it\u2019s not likely to prolong life significantly. Sometimes his counsel helps patients find their voices when they no longer wish to continue treatment and their families aren\u2019t supportive.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Good spiritual care can also make bereavement easier for those left behind. &nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cAfter patients pass, the bereaved can have a lot of untoward health effects,\u201d said Reeni Abraham, an internal medicine physician who advises a course on medicine and spirituality at UT Southwestern Medical School. \u201cHaving a death that&#8217;s the least distressing is not only important compassionately for the patient but also for their support system.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Spirituality also offers an avenue for a deeper relationship between patients and their physicians, Abraham added. If she notices a Bible or a devotional at a patient\u2019s bedside, she might inquire: \u201cHow are you doing? I see that you\u2019re reading the Bible. Do you want to tell me more about that?&#8221;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">In situations like this, physicians must tread carefully, always following the patient\u2019s lead and never proselytizing. But when the patient expresses an interest, and the physician feels comfortable, shared prayers or spiritual conversations are healing to some. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cWe hope this kind of spiritual support provides for increased comfort and better relationships with patients\u2019 health care teams,\u201d Abraham said. \u201cThe goal is to advance health, and health is a conglomerate of many things. It&#8217;s a holistic approach to a patient.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Spiritual Assessments<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Most hospitals and many doctors now take a spiritual history or spiritual assessment as part of the patient intake process. Spiritual assessments provide yet another way to understand and support patients in their experience of health and illness, according to Abraham.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cIt&#8217;s important to treat patients holistically,\u201d Abraham said. \u201cI firmly believe that really helps us to advance care. That&#8217;s beneficial for physicians as they build relationships with their patients, and as they walk beside their patients during all the milestones in life that they&#8217;ll see together.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The spiritual assessment also helps identify beliefs or faith affiliations that could affect a person\u2019s treatment plan\u2014such as a Jehovah\u2019s Witness, who might refuse a blood transfusion for religious reasons.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">One of the most popular models is the FICA Spiritual History tool, which asks patients questions about faith and belief (\u201cDo you have spiritual beliefs that help you cope with stress?\u201d), importance (\u201cHave your beliefs influenced how you take care of yourself in this illness?\u201d), community (\u201cAre you part of a spiritual or religious community?\u201d) and address in care (\u201cHow would you like me to address these issues in your health care?\u201d)<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cThe goal is to find out what is important to the patient,\u201d said Marita Grundzen, associate director emerita of Stanford Geriatric Education Center at Stanford School of Medicine. \u201cSome might say, \u2018I\u2019d like my pastor to visit,\u2019 or \u2018I\u2019d like to have communion.\u2019 Another might say, \u2018I\u2019d like access to the outdoors. I can better heal with a nature scene outside of my window.\u2019\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Spiritual Sensitivity<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Sally Mandler and her husband, Gene Beasley, both consider themselves spiritual but not religious; Beasley used to joke that he was a \u201cborn-again pedestrian.\u201d After Beasley had a stroke last March\u2014on top of pre-existing Alzheimer\u2019s disease\u2014Mandler enlisted the help of an in-home health agency, which sent caregivers to assist with bathing, dressing and other needs. Many were young men from Ghana with a strong Christian faith and, in one case, a lack of sensitivity to those with different beliefs. One man insisted on praying \u201cin Jesus\u2019 name\u201d over Beasley at bedtime. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Even with his compromised cognition, Mandler saw the distress in Beasley\u2019s eyes, and asked the caregiver to leave. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Professional caregivers do usually try to avoid offering spiritual input that may be viewed as intrusive or inappropriate. Yet when the patient identifies as spiritual but not religious, the definition of what is appropriate may be unclear.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Open-ended questions can help tease out what\u2019s important to patients and to find ways to support them appropriately, Washington said. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cI ask, \u2018What will be meaningful to you at this time?\u2019\u201d he said. \u201cThe answer is whatever the patient tells you.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If the patient asks, Washington might offer a prayer to a Higher Power, rather than God or Jesus. Or he might help a patient reflect on legacy and what he or she hopes to leave behind. Sometimes it may mean helping the patient to find closure by forgiving a family member or by asking for forgiveness. Sometimes it\u2019s simply a promise by the chaplain to be there at the end. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cI am meeting the needs they have and respecting their spirituality,\u201d he said. \u201cIt\u2019s not about my faith background. It\u2019s about the patients and what is meaningful to them and to their families.\u201d <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Sometimes, sensitive spiritual care may even mean keeping religion or faith out of the equation entirely. &nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cIf I ask, \u2018What gives your life meaning?\u2019 and the patient says, \u2018Fishing,\u2019 then my response is, \u2018Great. Let&#8217;s talk about fishing,\u2019\u201d Abraham said. &nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Stevenson-Moessner notes this trend toward treating mind, body and spirit together is part of ancient medical tradition. In indigenous cultures, religious leader are also healers; Hippocrates noted in 460 BC that the spiritual and the physical were intertwined.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cIt\u2019s nothing new,\u201d she said. \u201cIt\u2019s just that we\u2019ve reclaimed it.\u201d <\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Eric Markinson identified himself as a chaplain when he walked into the hospital room of a man he calls Tommy, who was dying of alcohol-related liver disease.&nbsp;<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cI don\u2019t think you can help me much,\u201d Tommy said. \u201cI\u2019m an atheist.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<div class=\"read-more\"><a href=\"http:\/\/78.142.243.82\/~silvercentury\/2019\/02\/spiritual-support-at-the-end-of-life\/\">Read more <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">Spiritual Support at the End of Life<\/span><span class=\"meta-nav\"> &#8250;<\/span><\/a><\/div>\n<p><!-- end of .read-more --><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":13,"featured_media":5312,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"ngg_post_thumbnail":0,"_FSMCFIC_featured_image_caption":"","_FSMCFIC_featured_image_nocaption":null,"_FSMCFIC_featured_image_hide":null,"footnotes":""},"categories":[5,4],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-5361","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-getting-older","category-issues-in-aging"],"cc_featured_image_caption":{"caption_text":"","source_text":"","source_url":""},"wps_subtitle":"Medical and hospice professionals are learning to meet patients\u2019 spiritual needs","_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/78.142.243.82\/~silvercentury\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5361","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/78.142.243.82\/~silvercentury\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/78.142.243.82\/~silvercentury\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/78.142.243.82\/~silvercentury\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/13"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/78.142.243.82\/~silvercentury\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=5361"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"http:\/\/78.142.243.82\/~silvercentury\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5361\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":5365,"href":"http:\/\/78.142.243.82\/~silvercentury\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5361\/revisions\/5365"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/78.142.243.82\/~silvercentury\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/5312"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/78.142.243.82\/~silvercentury\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=5361"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/78.142.243.82\/~silvercentury\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=5361"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/78.142.243.82\/~silvercentury\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=5361"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}