{"id":7780,"date":"2024-09-10T12:37:08","date_gmt":"2024-09-10T16:37:08","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.silvercentury.org\/?p=7780"},"modified":"2024-09-11T17:33:30","modified_gmt":"2024-09-11T21:33:30","slug":"the-upside-and-downside-of-being-owned-by-a-cat","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/78.142.243.82\/~silvercentury\/2024\/09\/the-upside-and-downside-of-being-owned-by-a-cat\/","title":{"rendered":"The Upside and Downside of Being Owned by a Cat"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I love my cat, but until now, I hadn\u2019t thought of her as a way to stay healthy. In fact, when I first brought Velvet\u2014a small, feisty black kitty\u2014home, I thought of her as a dog substitute. My beloved dog had died. I longed for another, but cats don\u2019t need to be walked several times a day in all kinds of weather. I was in my 80s, and that was appealing.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Since then, I\u2019ve learned that cats come with health benefits that are important for older people.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Cat owners are less likely to have minor health problems, like headaches\u2014and major ones, like heart disease and heart attacks. No one knows why, and <a href=\"https:\/\/www.heart.org\/en\/healthy-living\/healthy-bond-for-life-pets\/pet-owners#:~:text=Pets%20can%20help%20you%20reduce,overall%20happiness%20and%20well%2Dbeing\">these findings are somewhat controversial<\/a>, but scientists do know that stroking a cat can lower your heart rate and blood pressure. It releases the hormone oxytocin, which\u2014among other things&#8211;relieves stress and anxiety.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I\u2019m pretty sure that when I\u2019m stroking Velvet, I\u2019m doing good things for her blood pressure and stress level, too.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Cats provide companionship, which can make a big difference to older people who are lonely or depressed. I live alone and don\u2019t feel at all lonely, and I give Velvet much of the credit. She\u2019s good company, whether she\u2019s greeting me at the door or looking up at me with her big green eyes, meowing to let me know she\u2019s hungry.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A cat can provide you with a sense of purpose, a reason to get up in the morning. You\u2019re needed\u2014to feed the cat, clean the litter box and take her to the vet from time to time. A neighbor of mine has a sign on her door that reads, \u201cThe cat and her staff live here.\u201d But that\u2019s not how it is. Once my adult children moved out, I was left with unused nurturing skills and a need to be needed. I suspect other people have that too.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A cat can be an antidote to insomnia. Researchers report that many people sleep better when sharing their bed with a pet than they do when sharing it with a partner. Velvet doesn\u2019t snore, unlike my husband and my dog, who used to do duets. Occasionally, she chooses not to spend the night with me, and I don\u2019t sleep as well.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Older people who have pets get more exercise. When health websites roll out this fact, they generally have dogs in mind, but it\u2019s even true for some cats. Occasionally, Velvet escapes into the hallway outside our apartment and darts away, expecting me to chase her. There\u2019s no way I can catch her, but I pad along in her wake, and she stays just far enough ahead to keep me motivated. When she\u2019s finally tired, she lies down in the middle of the hall and waits for me to pick her up and carry her home. This is good exercise for both of us.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A mischievous cat can make you laugh, and that\u2019s possibly the biggest health benefit of all. I can\u2019t help laughing when I have trouble tying my shoes because Velvet keeps grabbing the laces, or when she stretches out on the floor and rolls over multiple times, watching me to make sure I\u2019m watching her. This is how she apologizes for any trouble she\u2019s caused. I\u2019m supposed to applaud and forgive her. I can\u2019t imagine where she learned to do that.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Sometimes it\u2019s the situation the cat gets you into that provides the laugh. Velvet once pulled the emergency cord in my apartment twice in one week. Each time, one of my community\u2019s EMTs arrived promptly to make sure I was okay.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I could tell these trained medical professionals were getting tired of false alarms when, a day or so later, I accidentally pulled the cord myself while taping it to the wall.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cI\u2019ve come to arrest your cat,\u201d said the uniformed man who turned up. There was a twinkle in his eye.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I showed him the duct-taped cord and assured him it would never be pulled again. He sized up Velvet and shook his head.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cCoffee and doughnuts next time,\u201d he said as he went out the door.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Sharing a household with a cat can also have a downside.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Cats are picky eaters. I have a stack of canned cat entrees she once loved\u2014until suddenly she didn\u2019t.&nbsp;<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you work from home, as I do, you\u2019ll find it\u2019s hard to bang away on a keyboard with a cat in your lap who expects to be petted.&nbsp;<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">During spring and fall, Velvet sheds enough fur to roll up into a kitten.&nbsp;<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you go away for a while\u2014on vacation or to the hospital\u2014you have to line up somebody to feed the cat.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Some people are allergic to cats. No breed is totally nonallergenic, but some are <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.petmd.com\/cat\/general-health\/hypoallergenic-cat-breeds\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">much less likely to set off symptoms<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.&nbsp;<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Cats can be more dangerous than throw rugs\u2014they\u2019re so often underfoot. But if Velvet trips me someday, it will all still have been worth it for the pleasure of her company.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">There are a few things to consider if you\u2019re choosing a cat at an animal shelter. Kittens are adorable, but they have endless energy and need a lot of attention. If you take home an older cat, you could be saving a life. Shelters have a hard time finding homes for them. Eighty-two percent of kittens are adopted, compared to just 60 percent of cats older than 18 months. And black cats are especially hard to place because of superstitions.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">American Humane, an animal welfare organization, suggests that older adults ask for a calm adult cat with minimal medical needs.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Some animal rescues and shelters have Seniors for Seniors programs that reduce or waive adoption fees for older people who choose older pets. Usually, the adopting humans must be in their 60s or older, and the cats must be at least 6 or 8\u2014which is not very old for a feline. The average indoor cat lives to be 16, and I\u2019ve known more than one kitty who was still going strong at 21.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A New Jersey nonprofit called <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.gratefulpawsnj.com\/programs\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Grateful Paws<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> not only arranges for aspiring cat owners who are 60 or older to take home an older cat with no adoption fee, but if they\u2019re on government assistance, Grateful Paws will also pay for the cat\u2019s medical care and, if necessary, for its food and litter. All the new owner has to do, the program says, is love the cat and get it to its medical appointments.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I paid full price for Velvet, and it\u2019s been well worth it. She\u2019s been keeping me healthy for nine years now, and she\u2019s the joy of my life.&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I love my cat, but until now, I hadn\u2019t thought of her as a way to stay healthy. In fact, when I first brought Velvet\u2014a small, feisty black kitty\u2014home, I thought of her as a dog substitute. 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